Barry
and Hannah, an old married couple, are sitting on the couch watching TV. Hannah
had wanted to go out with friends, but Barry like always wanted to sit at home,
watch tv and drink his beer. “You know hun,” Barry told her, “I’d love to go
out with your friends, really. But I am tired and the spirit is willing but the
flesh is weak.” Frustrated, Hannah called her friends and told them that Barry
was being an old stick in the mud again. So that night they were watching an
old movie from the 70s, called “Love Story” Do you remember that one? About a
man loving a dying woman. So eventually they were speaking about what they
wanted in case one of them died and how to prepare in case of death. “Honey,”
says Barry, turning to his wife with a serious expression, “I want you to
promise me, that if there ever comes a time that I am dependent on just
machines and bottled fluid, that you will make sure to put an end to it.”
“No problem hun,” said Hannah, and she promptly got up, turned off the TV, and
poured his beer down the drain.
How
many times have you had the same feeling as Barry, that the Spirit was willing
but the flesh was weak? That saying comes from Scripture, Matthew 26:41 “"Watch and pray so that you will not fall
into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak." It was
one of the scriptures that we have looked at in our Friday night Bible studies
recently. The Disciples were to watch and pray with Jesus right after the Last
Supper, but they all had fallen asleep while Jesus prayed. Really, who could
blame them, it was right after a big meal! But you would think that at such an
important time the disciples would have some well…discipline and pray with the
Lord. But the flesh is weak.
How
many of us have succumbed to the weakness of the flesh? Easter is coming and of
course it is a time where candy is everywhere. Have you ever had a time where
you pass a candy bowl and gave into temptation vowing to have just one piece
and suddenly you find that one was not enough? It is human nature, we like
things that make us feel good and with comfort foods it is hard to have
discipline. That is why Lays used to have the ad phrase “You can’t eat just
one” in their commercials.
Our
New Testament reading for today talks about this very issue, the battle for our
will that goes on in our mind. The battle between the mind and our emotions.
Lets read it in the New International Version,
The mind governed by
the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and
peace. The
mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s
law, nor can it do so. Those
who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.
You,
however, are not in the realm of the flesh but are in the realm of the
Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not
have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ. But if Christ is in
you, then even though your body is subject to death because of sin, the
Spirit gives life because
of righteousness. And
if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he
who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal
bodies because of his
Spirit who lives in you.
As
Christians we have God’s Holy Spirit residing in us. It is a companion to our
conscience, gently nudging us to do what is right. But as humans we all have
our human nature. That part of us passed on biologically, our animal nature.
That self-centered part of us that wants more. More money, more power, more fame,
more possessions. And sometimes it is a battle.
A
minister parked his car in a no-parking zone in a large city because he was
short of time and couldn't find a space with a meter. So he put a note under
the windshield wiper that read: "I have circled the block 100 times. If I
don't park here, I'll miss my appointment. FORGIVE US OUR DEBTS."
When he returned, he found a citation from a police officer along with this note. "I've circled this block for 10 years. If I don't give you a ticket, I'll lose my job. LEAD US NOT INTO TEMPTATION."
When he returned, he found a citation from a police officer along with this note. "I've circled this block for 10 years. If I don't give you a ticket, I'll lose my job. LEAD US NOT INTO TEMPTATION."
Most
of the time, the easy way out is to give into our temptations. But the problem
is that when we give into our temptations we often find that our decisions have
consequences. The person who cheats on their diet gains weight. The alcoholic
who gives into temptation finds themselves off the wagon and back in the hole
they just dug themselves out of. The married man who gives into temptation and
commits adultery risks the destruction of their marriage and lives a life of
guilt. When we give into temptation we find out that the easy road, isn’t all
that easy.
But
God has given us His Holy Spirit to give us strength, His Holy Spirit whispers
to our hearts and warns us. And when we do not give in, we win, we gain
something. We become closer to God. God gives us peace and the confidence to be
stronger next time. It is simple psychological principles, the principles of
behavior modification and positive reinforcement. Our behavior often depends
upon rewards and punishments. When our behavior gives us positive results, we
tend to do that behavior more, hoping for the same positive result. If a
behavior gives us negative results, we tend to shy away from that behavior.
Often
times when we give into temptation and sin, we get a positive result in that it
feels good. It is only when the impact of our decisions come to fruit and we
face the consequences do we feel the negative result of giving into the flesh.
That is why its so easy to sin, the positive feelings are immediate and the
negative consequences often take time to affect us. So its easy to give in for
instant gratification, but we are only fooling ourselves because sooner or
later the negative impact of our decisions will come back to haunt us.
But
if we live in the Spirit, obeying God, when we resist temptation God reinforces
our behavior by strengthening us. Our instant gratification is deeper and
broader. God’s Spirit touches our own and lets us know that we did the right
thing, we do not face the negative
repercussions that we would have by giving in and in the end we are stronger,
we are at peace and we have control of our lives. While giving into temptation
might give us an initial rush of emotions in the end it leaves us empty and
wanting for more and stronger stimulation. And in the end we will never be
satisfied. But exercising discipline strengthens us and in the long run gives
us peace and true satisfaction. It strengthens our will and develops character.
We will still have the flesh nagging us
to give into temptation, but we have a reserve of strength upon which to draw
on for this fight against Spirit and flesh.
So
how about you today? Is there something that tempts you strongly, that you keep
giving into? No matter what it is, if you constantly give in, soon it will
become your master. But God has given us a way out. A way to build up our inner
person with character and strength. By bucking up and giving into God instead
of giving into our baser animal nature we find that true peace and wholeness
that we really desire. So today as we come to the Lord’s table, lets lay these
temptations at His feet and ask for the strength to have victory in Christ over
the things that would weigh us down and add strife to our lives.